Now, let's get to the basics. I started this year as most- boy free. Of course as soon as classes started I found myself head over heals for a hunk in a jersey, and as always, found out he was in no way a keeper. More on this chico later.
When we look for relationships, we tend to get picky. This is perfectly acceptable. What is not acceptable is not building up massive expectations and kicking away everyone that doesn't meet them. All I ask is that my guy is educated, not a complete jack ass, has a job, earns my family's respect, and treats me with just as much respect as I give to him. If I say I'm not ready for sex, don't wait two minutes then try again! Guys, I'll know when I'm ready and trust me, I'll be the first to let you know.
Flirting can be a lot of fun. Of course there is a huge difference between flirting and grabbing someone's junk and making out with them. We all say a lot of stupid things when we are trying to impress someone. For example "Your ass looks super in those pants," or "Didn't we have a class together 2 years ago?" Some of my favorites, "Oh, you're a Special Education major? I'm taking a class about kids with disabilities-- I call it my retard class!" or "Baby it's not the size of the wave, it's the motion of the ocean!" (Yeah? Try telling that to Japan.)
Bottom line, unless you're a naturally funny person, try to be a little more serious. You can still be funny without looking like a jack ass.
